Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Reach for the Stars!!!

It's been four days since our "Slice of Hope for CMT" fundraising event and I still can't believe how much we accomplished. Our event was a complete success with a full house, delicious pizzas and dessert pies, over 50 items being raffled off and over $13,000 raised!!!! Yup! Almost three times our original goal of $5,000.

The Chief of Police, aka John's boss, also made an appearance to represent the mayor and read the proclamation declaring September 13 as Charcot-Marie-Tooth Awareness Day in Shelton!!

When I first thought of doing the event, I thought we had a lot of potential since my husband was born and raised in Shelton and we would probably get a lot of support. The final results were beyond my wildest dreams. I originally wanted to set our goal around $3,000 because I thought $5,000 might be too much. HA!!

I have a background in marketing and event planning and expected this to be a lot of work. Well, it turned out to be even more work than I thought, but the rewards were also so much sweeter. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you plan to do something like this...something for a CAUSE...something that will help others and yourself.

I have been overwhelmed by the outpouring of support, financial donations, and words of encouragement. So many people have approached us and mentioned how they never heard of CMT and how they would have never guessed I had any health issues. So many people have offered help and prayers. And so many others have simply just said what a great job we are doing at spreading the word.

As the event organizer, I knew everything that was going to happen that night, yet, I got the biggest surprise. Jeana Sweeney from the CMTA, drove up from Pennsylvania to support our event. This is the second time she drives up for a fundraiser that we're involved in and I was so grateful that she could be there to help us. To my complete shock, during our thanks and what I thought was going to be a short presentation by Jeana about CMT, she presented me with the CMTA I Am A Star Award!!! I was completely speechless. Lynne Krupa, our Support Group Facilitator, went on to read the emotional letter my sister submitted, which you can read here.

I am so thankful and honored that the CMTA chose me as their recipient. I see so many posts on Facebook and online about active CMT'ers and I can't believe they chose lil' ol' me.

I've been in "hibernation" since Saturday, pretty much just sleeping and relaxing...the event definitely took a physical toll, as much as I tried to sit whenever possible that night. I feel like we accomplished so much here in Connecticut this Awareness Month and I'm so proud of all the work we did to get there. I would encourage anyone who is interested in taking a more active role to do so. It may be taxing on our bodies but it's very fulfilling for our souls.

Monday, September 2, 2013

A Slice of Hope for CMT: Update

Our fundraiser is moving along so well and so much has happened since my first blog post about the event. Here are some of the updates that have been going on in the last few weeks:
  • Governor Malloy proclaimed September CMT Awareness Month in Connecticut and Governor Christie did the same in New Jersey

I definitely did not plan on sharing so much about our lives when we first set out to do this, but it has been a very rewarding experience. It has been great to receive support from so many people and also to be approached by so many who now know that CMT does not stand for Country Music Television!

If you would like to make a donation to support this event and CMT, you can visit this link:  http://www.cmtausa.org/url/sliceofhopeforcmt.

Saturday, August 17, 2013

CMT and Yours Truly on the News

Things have been really busy around here lately!!! And busy in the best way possible :)

I did an interview today with Jocelyn Maminta, a health reporter from WTNH 8, a local TV channel. I am so grateful that my neurologist, Dr. Daniel Dicapua, was also available to do this interview with us and lend his expertise. This has been an amazing opportunity to raise awareness about CMT and discuss our "Slice of Hope" fundraiser on a much bigger forum.

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CMT Awareness Month is going to be BIGGER and BETTER this year!!!!

Friday, August 16, 2013

Charcot-Marie-Tooth Awareness Month

It's official, Gov. Dannel Malloy has signed an Official Statement proclaiming September 2013 as Charcot-Marie-Tooth Awareness Month in the State of Connecticut. Thank you Governor for supporting our cause and giving hope to the millions of people who suffer from CMT.

 And thank you also to Governor Christie for proclaiming CMT Awareness Month in the State of New Jersey! Very exciting times for all of us CMT'ers!!

Friday, August 2, 2013

A Meeting of the CMT Chicks

I decided to write this blog for purely lazy reasons...so I wouldn't have to tell the story of my pursuit of surgeries to my husband, my parents and my sisters over and over again with all the details. I never imagined that by deciding to share my story on this public forum, that I would gain so much, especially with the people that I would eventually meet through here.

One of my very dear friends now, who is always there for me in moments of happiness and sadness, who is more involved in my life than friends who I've known for years, is the first CMT friend I made through this blog...Jessica. I am so thankful for her friendship and for having her in my life and honestly, it all happened because we were both CMT bloggers.

Jess and I on one of our first outings together...the day we met Bernadette!

Then I went on to meet four amazing women in all different parts of the US and Canada, who have also been an amazing support system and great friends. Each one of us has been doing our part in spreading the word by blogging away about our lives with CMT and all the shenanigans we get into. We started off by creating a private group on Facebook for the five of us where we could discuss things more privately, share tips and ask questions of one another. And then someone, sorry I can't remember who, came up with the wonderful idea that we should all create a joint blog: Clicks for CMT: Bloggers Raising Awareness. Our joint blog has been a great venture for us all and given us an opportunity to do more for our cause.

But I live in Connecticut, Esther is in New York (we were able to meet at the Bernadette screening in NYC), Melissa is in Utah, Lenka is in California and Nicole is in Canada. We would LOVE to have a weekend for girls' chat and to just finally meet in person when we have all shared such deep personal thoughts and feelings and really relied on one another for support.

Esther and I got a HUGE treat this week because Nicole and her family came to NYC for their summer trip. We all planned to meet at Frank Sinatra Park in Hoboken, NJ this past Wednesday. It took us all a little while to find each other, but when we did, we just had the best time!!! It's just such a great feeling when you have known someone for a few years and then you FINALLY get to hang out and chat...I could not have asked for a better afternoon! It was great to see Esther again and hear about her adorable kids and to meet Nicole and discover that she is just as wonderful and bubbly as I pictured in my head! 

Another treat was to finally meet Jay as well...after all we've read about him! I think it was great for John to meet Jay and hear about the role he plays in his family since John's is so similar in ours...

Our boys...too bad Adiel couldn't make it this time!
It was just a beautiful day ...

CMT may be an obstacle and there are days when you sure wish it wasn't a part of your life, but if it weren't for CMT, I would have never met these wonderful people who will always be a part of my life!! Now the goal is to meet Melissa and Lenka...soon enough, we hope.

Monday, July 22, 2013

A Slice of Hope for CMT

Thanks to my physical and pool therapies, the right medication and lots of faith and praying, I have been feeling better the past couple of months. As CMT Awareness Month quickly approaches, I felt the desire to do more this year...to plan my first fundraiser and awareness event!!! It's definitely a bit daunting to take on the responsibility but the idea has been received really well by everyone, especially the wonderful support group I'm a part of.

My husband was born and raised in the town where we live and he works. Needless to say, he knows everyone. So I thought I could take advantage of that and plan an event at our local firehouse where he's a member and ask local business to participate by donating the food and sponsoring our event. All money raised will benefit the CMTA STAR Research Program.

We have lots of ideas in the works but I wanted to share our flyer and sponsor form here...in case anyone would like to contribute. Very excited for this to be a very successful event!

LIKE us on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/ASliceOfHopeForCmt

Friday, June 21, 2013

Having Mountain Moving Faith

Thankfully I have been feeling much better as of late. My physical and pool therapies have helped me immensely as well as the medication I have been taking. Lately, I have been attempting to meditate a lot more and listen to positive lectures on health and power of your mind. I recently listened to a lecture by Joel Osteen that really changed my way of thinking.

I have always been a resigned individual...to a fault. I have a strong belief system in God and things happening the way they are meant to so my tendency has always been not to fight difficulties, but accept them. My mother and plenty of other close friends and family have been telling me to focus on positive thinking and trying to condition myself to see CMT not affecting me the way it does but for some reason, that never clicked 100% with me...For some reason, watching this lecture, I finally snapped and got what everyone has been talking about for ages.

In this lecture, Joel Osteen talks about Having Mountain Moving Faith and talking to your mountain, that big permanent problem that doesn't seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. Well, as you can imagine, my mountain is CMT. And I've been talking to her...call me crazy!

But wouldn't you know, that since I've been talking to my mountain, things just seem to be falling into place? I am having a lot more energy, I am managing to get a lot more accomplished around the house, I am getting up in the morning with very little pain and ready to go, even when I've had a jam-packed day the day before.

And what do I say to my mountain? I listen to a lot of what he says in the lecture and I tell CMT that I am commanding it to leave, that my God is bigger and stronger than CMT will ever be in my body, that we've had a good run together but I have learned the lessons that it came to teach me. I also tell CMT that it's time for us to part ways so I can move on to the next phase of my life: parenthood. That I want to have a pregnancy with less medications, I want to be big and beautiful and want my legs to be strong enough to hold me...and I just talk. If you know me, you know I am a yapper! And talking to it and telling it we are done seems to have changed something in me physically, emotionally and spiritually. I am not allowing it to take over me. I have stopped saying: "Man, I know I am going to be exhausted tomorrow because I've done so much today"...instead I am saying "Tomorrow is going to be another wonderful day and I'm going to wake up full of energy and ready to go."

It took me a long time to get here but it seems I finally learned. I am going to continue to talk to my mountains going forward because I like this new me...I like being able to be more independent and self-reliant and it makes me feel like the old me...before I ever heard of the words: Charcot-Marie-Tooth.

And all of this has brought on a new excitement, a desire to do more...which I will share in my next post!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

More CMT Awareness...

...courtesy of Bernadette! I have talked a lot about Bernadette, her documentary, and her efforts to spread the word on CMT.

She did an interview with The Indie Chicks website at the end of last year and I just wanted to share it here.

Bernadette Scarduzio: Charcot-Marie-Tooth Warrior and Inspiration 

Click HERE

Enjoy and pass it on :)

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Living with Chronic Pain and Prejudice

It's been a long while since I wrote on my blog, but to say the last 6 months has been a roller coaster is an understatement. I got off my meds and got pregnant but sadly miscarried around Christmas time, we took a family trip where my sister got engaged and I struggled with traveling with a scooter for the first time, we gutted our kitchen and lived through the renovation. During the renovation, I decided to go back on all my meds because I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Living with chronic pain is hard on your body and on you emotionally. There are days when you wish you could just hit the pause button and walk a mile in someone else's shoes for a change. As you struggle with all the intricacies that come with it, you must also deal with spoken and unspoken prejudice about your condition. Do you really feel as bad as you claim? What about that day when you were more active and in a better mood? Are you maybe just lazy? Is your life really as difficult as you claim because it doesn't seem like it? Why are you taking a handicapped parking spot from someone who really needs it? And these are just a few...

I've just read a really interesting article that describes these feelings to a T...read it here: A Pained Life: Pain Patients Need to be Heard

Unfortunately, CMT falls under the umbrella of the diseases rarely heard about. That's why spreading the word is so important and why we strive to make more and more people aware. Much has been done in the last few years and hopefully this will be a non-issue at some point in my lifetime.